Greetings from Denmark from a fellow guitar nerd.
I hope you are staying safe in these crazy times. Here in Denmark, the government was relatively quick to take action, so things have been kept relatively under control compared to many other places.
However, my office mate at work, caught the virus without knowing it, and we had a 5-hour meeting where I sat right next to him just two days before all of Denmark was shut down. At the time the shutdown was announced, I thought that the shut-down of more or less the whole country was over-reacting, but when my office mate called and told me that he (and his son) had tested positive, I isolated myself in one end of the house. Already the same evening i started getting a slight fever, so I assumed that I probably had caught it. At that time, only realy sick persons were tested here (that strategy has since then changed), so I was just told to isolate myself, which I had already done. Luckily the symptoms did not get too bad for me. Headache, a bit of fever, sore muscles in the whole body and a bit of coughing. And then after some days this strange side effect: I lost my sense of smell, and everything smelled a bit smokey to me. I thought it was kind of weird, but it made sense when I later found out that a lot of cases like that were reported from Italy. So I was pretty sure I had the Covid thing. After five days of isolation, the other three people in my house (my wife, my daughter and her boyfriend) also started having symptoms, so I was let out or “my room”, which I was getting quite fed up with . So I had infected all the others; probably before my isolation . As expected/hoped, the younger ones got over it REALLY fast (actually my daughter’s boyfriend had so slight symptoms that they wouldn´t have been noticeable if we didnt pay extra attention. This virus has a REALLY clever strategy for spreading itself!). My wife, on the other hand struggled with the virus for close to two months. She has tested negative now. Her symptoms were not too bad either, but after one month the headache was getting a bit to her. She lost her sense of taste pretty radically, but that is also almost back again now.
One thing that I didnt think of at the start of the pandemic was the other implications that this has. Unfortunately, my father got really sick (his liver is barely working), and was hospitalized. Due to the covid, we were not allowed to visit him. So when he got too weak to be able to speak over the phone, we were completely isolated from him. This is one of the worst experiences of my life: having a loved one being all alone in the hospital, and not being able to comfort or just be near him in any way. A very unexpected and nasty “bonus” of the pandemic. In the end my dad was what the doctors consider critical, so we were allowed in there to possibly say our goodbyes. He was so sick that we couldn’t get through to him, but even though it was horrible to see him like this it was still a thousand times better than to be isolated from him. In the night when I was home and going to bed, I had the feeling of being at the wrong place, so in stead of going to sleep, I went to the hospital and sat there in the dark, holding his hand. For some reason it seemed like the right thing to sing him a lullaby, so I did that. After a while it felt a bit better, so I got up and put on my jacket. All of a sudden he opened his eyes and looked at me, and I told him I was just there to wish him a good night. Then he just replied our version of nightynight! It turns out the first thing he remembers is me singing that lullaby for him. This was a magic moment to me. And I’m sure for him too. Despite being from a musical family, I have never sung for him even though we have made a lot of music together in the past. It is very poetic that he would wake up hearing me sing for him for the first time.
After this, he got a bit better, but the recovery seems to have stopped now. However; he is considered “stable” now, so now only my mother is allowed to visit him (due to the damned pandemic!). However; having my mum being able to visit him is clearly better than having noone there by his side. So now we’re all just hoping for the best.
This post got very long-winded. I guess I had a lot on my mind regarding the covid. Sorry for that.
I just hope you are all well out there in the world.
We will get over it even though now kind-of sucks.
-Mac