I have Warmoth 6100 on my headless guitar, which was the tallest the builder (Rick Canton) could source. My Strat has similarly large wire, but I can’t say what specific fretwire was was used (again, the tallest the luthier could source). My Vigier has “Medium” fretwire, which is supposedly 1.4mm tall, but narrower than a typical Jumbo fret.
I use a variety of different fretting postures, fretting angles and contact approaches depending upon what I’m playing. Sometimes quite vertical, but most of the time the angle is softer, and I fret a little closer to the pads of my fingers to allow for damping of at least one adjacent string.
EDIT: With my flattest fretting approach (similar to Eric Johnsons lead teachnique), there’s a very small and light skin-to-fingerboard contact, but with no perceivable friction or obstruction to bends and vibrato.
I have a very light touch. If my fretting pressure were any lighter, the strings wouldn’t ring clearly.